Date: September 21, 2024
Location: The Buffalo History Museum
Photographer: Janel Sealander
A Love Story Rooted in Family and Tradition
For Abigail Alexander and Bill Shaver, love has always been about family. So, it’s only fitting that their engagement began in a place filled with love and comfort — Abigail’s parents’ house. On June 18, 2023, surrounded by their closest loved ones, Bill popped the question, creating a moment that would forever be etched in their memories.
“It’s my favorite place in the world,” Abigail shared. “Having all the most important people in my life as witnesses made it absolutely perfect.”
With their hearts set on a classic wedding day experience, the couple began planning an elegant celebration at one of Buffalo’s most iconic venues — The Buffalo History Museum.
A Vision of Timeless Elegance
Abigail’s vision for her wedding day was clear from the start: classic, timeless, and full of heart. The Buffalo History Museum provided the perfect backdrop with its grand architecture, sophisticated charm, and romantic ambiance.
Wedding Style: Classic elegance with a hint of modern charm
Every detail was carefully considered, from the lush floral arrangements to the unforgettable live music, all of which created an atmosphere that felt both upscale and inviting.
The Dream Team of Vendors
Abigail and Bill’s wedding wouldn’t have been complete without their incredible team of vendors. Each one played a vital role in bringing their dream day to life. Here’s a look at the talented professionals who made it happen:
Florist: Bushel and Peck created breathtaking floral arrangements that added an elegant, natural touch to every space.
Photographer: Janel Sealander captured every candid moment and posed shot with artistry and precision.
Apparel: Abigail’s stunning gown was from Grace Loves Lace, a choice that perfectly matched her vision for classic elegance.
Hair & Makeup: Hair was styled by Golden Hour, while Emily’s Esthetics created a timeless, glowing bridal makeup look.
Catering: Guests savored every bite from Tappo, known for its impeccable cuisine and exceptional service.
Bakery: The Grange Outpost satisfied every sweet tooth with a delicious array of desserts.
Music: Silver Arrow Band kept the dance floor packed all night with an unforgettable live music experience.
Transportation: S&S Limo ensured the entire wedding party arrived in style and on time.
Accomodations: The Loft at 537 Main was the perfect place to unwind
The couple didn’t hire a formal wedding planner, but they had plenty of support. Abigail credited Christa from Tappo for being an instrumental part of their planning process and making sure every detail was seamless.
The Big Day: September 21, 2024
The wedding day was a celebration from start to finish. With a guest list of 190 loved ones, the joy was palpable from the moment guests arrived. The Buffalo History Museum’s iconic architecture served as a stunning backdrop for photos and set the stage for an unforgettable ceremony and reception.
Abigail’s walk down the aisle was a showstopper, as she wore a breathtaking gown from Grace Loves Lace. The live music from Silver Arrow Band filled the air with music, building anticipation for the moment she met Bill at the altar.
After the “I do’s,” it was time to celebrate! Guests enjoyed an incredible cocktail hour — a standout moment for Abigail. “The cocktail hour with all my family and friends was my absolute favorite part of the day,” she said. It was a chance for loved ones to connect, mingle, and savor delicious bites from Tappo before the night’s main festivities.
Food, Fun, and Forever Memories
When it came to food, Abigail and Bill didn’t cut corners. Tappo’s catering wowed guests with an unforgettable culinary experience, ensuring no one left hungry. Every bite was thoughtfully prepared and absolutely delicious.
Music was another highlight of the night. The Silver Arrow Band set the tone for an energetic and lively dance floor. From classic hits to modern jams, the band’s performance had every guest on their feet. The night was filled with music, laughter, and nonstop dancing.
Of course, no wedding is complete without something sweet. The Grange Outpost provided mouthwatering desserts that guests couldn’t stop raving about.
After the celebration was over, the happy couple retired to luxurious Loft at 537 Main and spent the rest of the weekend reminiscing on the beautiful, special day they just had.
Looking Back: Words of Wisdom from the Newlyweds
After all the excitement and celebration, Abigail and Bill have some heartfelt advice for engaged couples currently planning their weddings:“Don’t blink! Have the best time. Don’t let the small stuff sweat ya! Be present with your loved ones and take in every second.”
They also emphasized the value of having the right resources. “I wish I had known that all my answers to my wedding questions could be found at Upstate Indie Weddings,” Abigail shared. For couples looking for guidance, platforms like Upstate Indie Weddings provide access to vetted vendors, planning tips, and inspiration.
What’s Next for Abigail & Bill?
After such a spectacular wedding, the adventure doesn’t stop there! The couple is looking forward to their honeymoon in France and Italy in May. They’re excited to explore romantic cities, indulge in world-class cuisine, and create even more memories as newlyweds.
A Wedding Day to Remember
Abigail and Bill’s classic wedding at The Buffalo History Museum was everything they dreamed of — timeless, joyful, and filled with love. From their heartfelt ceremony to the lively reception, every moment was a testament to the power of family, love, and thoughtful planning.
If you’re currently planning your wedding, take inspiration from Abigail and Bill’s story. Whether it’s focusing on the details that matter most (like live music and incredible food) or savoring the moment with your loved ones, their day reminds us of what weddings are truly about — love, joy, and connection.
Looking for more real wedding inspiration or help finding local vendors? Upstate Indie Weddings is here to support you every step of the way. Let Abigail’s story be a guide as you plan a celebration that’s uniquely yours.
Vendors Who Made It All Happen
Venue: The Buffalo History Museum
Florist: Bushel and Peck
Photographer: Janel Sealander
Dress: Grace Loves Lace
Hair: Golden Hour
Makeup: Emily’s Esthetics
Catering: Tappo
Bakery: The Grange Outpost
Band: Silver Arrow Band
Transportation: S&S Limo
Accomodations: The Loft at 537 Main
Congratulations to Abigail and Bill on their unforgettable wedding day! May your love story continue to grow as beautifully as it began.
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